I struggled with low blood pressure my whole life. It wouldn’t have been so bad, but I also struggled with tachycardia (too rapid heart rate) my whole life as well. The two issues combined were a recipe for hypovolemic shock. When I went into hypovolemic shock, we called it bottoming out. It was one of the reasons I was admitted to the hospital so frequently.
“Any time you know you’re bottoming out, that’s an automatic 911 call”. Dr Oster had told me.
I could always tell when I had low blood pressure and a high heart rate and was going into shock. My skin would turn bluish-gray and I would alternate between having chills and hot flashes. The world would start trying to pin me down. Exhaustion would overwhelm me along with a pull towards the darkness of the unconscious.
No matter where I was when the low blood pressure hit, I would have to call for an ambulance. If I was at home it wasn’t the biggest deal in the world, but if I was in an embarrassing place it was awful. Pretty much anywhere in public fell under the category of an embarrassing place. The more people around, the more embarrassing it was. Sometimes I would need to call an ambulance from art class. Other times I would be at the mall or the park with friends.
My mom has been my safety net for my whole life. She just sometimes doesn’t hold my safety net in the right places. When I first got sick she didn’t know where to hold my safety net because the professionals were all insisting that there was nothing physically wrong with me. They insisted that I had an eating disorder.
Because she was holding my safety net in the wrong spot, I fell. Hard. And whacked my head on the floor of an elevator when I passed out after a routine blood test. My dad had to rush me to the ER. At the ER a doctor with a monkey fingerling named Mr. Bananas clinging to his stethoscope examined me.
Everything started at age eight when I stopped being able to eat lunch at school. If you ask a thousand different people with gastroparesis, “What do you do when your stomach fails you?” They will give you a thousand different answers. When I was in third grade my answer was to refuse to eat lunch and snacks anymore.
Of course, this made my parents very anxious, and started them asking me a bazillion questions. I almost wanted to ask them, “What would you do when your stomach fails you?” but I knew I couldn’t talk to my parents like that.
It wasn’t until the end of third grade and the summer of my nine-year-old check-up that my parents really went on high alert. But as soon as I saw Dr. Monroe, my pediatrician, she noticed I had fallen off the growth charts for weight and then was reminded that even though I had barely turned nine I was on the highly competitive level six gymnastics team. Instead of thinking, “What do you do when your stomach fails you?” She decided to plaster me with the eating disorder label and dismiss all possible physical possibilities for my stomach failing me.
I can trace my descent into chronic illness all the way back to age eight. Up until then, I was actually a healthy kid. Until then there was no mention of hospitals, tube feeding, IV nutrition, terminal illness, or unrelenting pain. None of that. Back then there was no talk about me having an eating disorder.
The first sign of any issues occurred in third grade when I began suffering from frequent pounding headaches.
Another early sign of something amiss was how dry my body was. If I went a couple of hours without sipping on a drink I could put a finger in my mouth and move it around, and my entire mouth would be bone dry.
My skin began to get very dry as well, and I noticed something odd, I no longer could sweat, no matter how hot the temperature was.
Even my eyes were super dry to the point where it made my vision blurry.
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